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Posts Tagged With: "Caroline Kennedy"

Interview on Speaking, Obama and Twitter

Posted by Bert Decker   |   April 8th, 2009   |   1 Comment   |  Tweet This

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Good friend and communicator Chris Spagnuolo has a great blog called Edgehopper (that’s his frog above) – and he was nice enough to interview me. In case you missed it:

Ten Questions with Bert Decker

(1) In your book “You’ve Got to Be Believed to Be Heard” you refer to “The New Communicators”. Can you explain what a new communicator is? Can you give an example of your favorite New Communicator?

New communicators connect with EVERY audience – no matter the setting – in:

• behavior

• content

• interaction

In our Decker Method courses we call it the messenger, the message and the medium – they all are one. A new communicator creates a communication experience that is energized and action oriented.

Three great New Communicators are Steve Jobs (business world), Guy Kawasaki (tech/author world) and Bono (celebrity world.)

(2) So, that covers the good communicators. Who would say is having the most trouble these days as a communicator and why?

• Richard Fuld, Lehman Brothers CEO – closed, arrogant and aloof when he testified to Congress.

Caroline Kennedy – she lost her bid for the NY Senate seat with a monotone, halting delivery, unfocused message and a mess of ‘ums’ and ‘ahs.’

• Timothy Geithner – stiff and cold. He is not a good messenger for this very important and controversial message.

(3) There has been so much said about Barack Obama’s oratory skills in the past year. Would you consider Barack Obama to be a New Communicator?

No, he’s a good orator, not a great communicator. I’ve reviewed him often (check out Bert’s review here) and it’s fascinating – Obama is President largely because of his 2004 Convention speech, but he STILL does not use the teleprompter well (here’s Bert’s detailed take on Obama’s use of the teleprompter) And when not speechifying, he usually communicates in a professorial manner, with a halting cadence, and also many ums and ahs. Occasionally he is energetic and open and light – but rarely. So ironically, the one who became President because of communication (read oratorical) skills needs to increase his connecting skills.

(4) If you could give one bit of advice to Mr. Obama, what would it be?

• Learn to use the teleprompter so it’s not a ping-pong match – 4 seconds to one side and 4 seconds to the other.

• Leave pauses instead of filling space with non-words.

• Vary rhythm and pacing of voice – energize not professorialize.

(5) You have become a fixture on Twitter in the past year (BTW, I love your Tweets). How do you see the rise of social media tools like Twitter and Facebook impacting communications over the next few years?

I see Twitter (not Facebook) as the dominant communication tool for both text and speaking. It’s a powerful business/personal communication medium in it’s current form as text only, and will become EXPLOSIVE with the right app (the new Nambu is promising – that’s the direction it will be going.) But it will change the face of the speaking environment.

(6) Do you believe there is going to be a new breed of new New Communicators who will use social media tools to connect with people?

Yes and no. First the no – the majority of people will use the text only email/Linked-in/Twitter etc as text only – will not incorporate it holistically.

And yes, the New Communicator will embrace the social media tools (Twitter mostly) in ALL of their communicating environments – but they will be smart about it, and understand there is a difference in text, voice and in person communications – learn the differences and use them intentionally. Most people communicate at the unconscious level – our goal is to make it conscious.

(7) It seems that a big buzz these days is about the use of Twitter at conferences and presentations. What are your thoughts on the rising use of Twitter during presentations?

Twitter is going to be very powerful in expanding (or disrupting) the conference and formal speaking environment. I blogged on that here – but more is yet to come. Big business (most of our clients) are not used to using Twitter in meetings and speeches, but no longer can anyone say ‘laptops down.’ People will Twitter whether you like it or not, so you have to incorporate that in your ‘experience’ and be intentional. Those who become good at it can enhance and expand their speaking – but it will be a rocky road for awhile. Those who use it well will succeed mightily.

(8) You attended SXSW in Austin, TX earlier this year. What were the top insights you gained at SXSW this year?

One of the most amazing conferences I’ve attended (out of thousands!) SXSW Interactive was peak energy, peak connections and peak engagement. 30 meetings going on at a time, 50-75% of people in most meetings/speeches were tweeting on laptops or cells. Podcasts and audios, twitpics and Flip videos and of course tweets were going out to the world by the thousands every minute. More and more conferences will become more like this.

Again, New Communicators must have not only the messenger and the message at peak performance, but also the medium.

Critical point though, that almost ALL neglect is getting video feedback and seeing themselves – so many at SXSW have distracting and nervous habits that it doesn’t matter how good their content or medium use is – they get in their own way. Observed behavior changes. The smart New Communicators at SXSW and all conferences will get themselves on video!

(9) What blogs are you reading most these days and why?

• Well, this one: EdgeHopper - Always well written and lengthy posts on relevant communication subjects – interactive media and personal behavior.

Presentation Zen - Garr Reynolds is the leader (along with Nancy Duarte) of slide design and communications quality. His posts are in depth, and insightful.

Seth Godin’s Blog – At first I didn’t like Seth’s text only posts, but then they grew on me for two reasons. They are short and pithy. 80% of them are original and thought provoking. (Pareto’s Law comes into play.)

(10) Who are your favorite follows on Twitter and why?

@ed – a very unusual man of integrity, insight and influence that I have gotten to know well on Twitter.

@OliviaMitchell – great communication research, tips and blog.

@Mashable – always good, up to date links and info on Twitter and the tech world.

But it’s a very tough question because there are so many Twitterers AND blogs that are good.

[Chris' note: If you want to follow Bert on Twitter, and I highly recommend it, he's @BertDecker]

(And Chris on Twitter is @ChrisSpagnuolo )


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Don’t Communicate Well – and You’re Out…

Posted by Bert Decker   |   January 22nd, 2009   |   2 Comments   |  Tweet This

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"Caroline Kennedy Flubs Her Coronation" was one of many headlines.

It was bound to happen. If not by her own accord “for personal reasons,” Caroline Kennedy would have no doubt eventually been ousted from consideration to replace Hilary Clinton as New York Senator.

There were great expectations to be sure. She has a remarkable legacy. She has class and integrity. She is intelligent. And indeed she is passionate about her causes, including recent support of newly elected President Obama. But, when it comes to thinking on her feet and being articulate under pressure, she fails miserably. As a result, it leaves her constituents doubting her and her ability to take on the office.

Another great case for the power of communications. More than ever before, today’s leaders – whether politics, business, sports, or philanthropy – must have it.
Many people think that with the right title, the right credentials, and/or the right subject matter expertise – that communications becomes secondary, something that doesn’t require attention and focus. But they must – we must – understand how we come across, conquer our weaknesses and enhance our strengths.

Think of Caroline Kennedy and you can see how poor communications can be devasting. On the other hand, think of what being an outstanding communicator can do for you! President Barack Obama for example…


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Why Caroline Kennedy Needs Speaking Game

Posted by Bert Decker   |   December 21st, 2008   |   2 Comments   |  Tweet This

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Caroline Kennedy wants a Senate seat, after years as a behind the scenes celebrity. But to succeed she must undergo a major change in her communication style if she is to become credible.

This is not an election. Gov. Paterson of New York makes the sole appointment when Hillary Clinton likely gives up her seat in about a month. But the Governor of New York will rely on polls, popular opinion and credibility. So it might as well be an election since Caroline has claimed she WANTS the seat, and the media is all over the story. And right now Caroline does not have the “chops”.

Years ago I worked in Bobby Kennedy’s Presidential campaign, and got to know something of how the Kennedy family worked. Caroline took after her beautiful and elegant mother Jackie Kennedy. John Jr. took more after his father and the rest of the Kennedy clan. Now Caroline wants to switch roles. I don’t think she can do it without a communication face lift.

Here she is announcing her interest in the Senate seat last week, and doing so in an affable and attractive way. But with hesitation and uncertainty – not in the forceful way she needs right now. After all, we know she’s affable and attractive. But is she strong? Is she a leader? Can she take the heat? And can she inspire and motivate people to accomplish things? Make a judgment here in an interview, and here in a platform speech

Specifically, Caroline Kennedy needs to show confidence, strength and leadership in her speaking:

  • Eye Communication. Look at people. As individuals. She glances down and her eyes flit about.
  • Pause. Give emphasis on certain words and phrases. Get rid of non-words – the ums and uhs of uncertainty. Replace fillers with a pause.
  • Stand Tall. She doesn’t exactly slouch, but she doesn’t fill a room. She needs some forward lean.
  • Forceful voice. Lose the monotone. Bring in the enthusiasm. She should project more, breathing from the diaphragm.

We also know for the last 40-plus years she has shied away from publicity and the camera. She can’t continue to do this as she did last week - make a statement and run. She has to show grit and answer reporters directly. She has to make news, not shun newsmedia. And she has to be eager to talk, not appear reluctant.

Perception is reality in the eye of the perceiver. How the public, and Governor Paterson, view her as she communicates is how they will judge her ability. Look at Sarah Palin – written off and mocked in the early days, before she spoke at the Republican Convention. Then she was viewed as the savior of the Republican party. Sarah Palin was compelling because of her speaking, Caroline Kennedy is not. Caroline Kennedy needs a similar signature moment – and perhaps she would be well served to create one.

Credentials? Not so important. Look at Barack Obama – President not because of accomplishments, but because of communication ability. Caroline can overcome the lack of experience in government by making a forceful case for the experience she does have, on Boards, in organizations, and her family experience in politics. Forceful is the key word, because the resume is thin. But Barack did it. She can – if she gets a communications face lift.


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