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		<title>Hook your audience</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 04 Nov 2011 15:58:45 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Ben Decker</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[&#8220;I&#8217;m here today to talk to you about standardization.&#8221; That&#8217;s the way a Silicon Valley engineer in our training program COULD have started his presentation about the need to standardize. Instead, he took a different route. &#8220;As I was doing some research for this presentation, I read that the city of Baltimore burnt to the ground in 1904. The tragedy is, it didn&#8217;t have to. Firefighters from nearby DC, New York, and Virginia all responded, but weren&#8217;t able to help because their hose couplings wouldn&#8217;t fit on the Baltimore hydrants &#8211; no standard had yet been set. The firefighters helplessly [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>&#8220;I&#8217;m here today to talk to you about standardization.&#8221;</p>
<p>That&#8217;s the way a Silicon Valley engineer in our training program COULD have started his presentation about the need to standardize. Instead, he took a different route.</p>
<p>&#8220;As I was doing some research for this presentation, I read that the city of Baltimore burnt to the ground in 1904. The tragedy is, it didn&#8217;t have to.</p>
<p>Firefighters from nearby DC, New York, and Virginia all responded, but weren&#8217;t able to help because their hose couplings wouldn&#8217;t fit on the Baltimore hydrants &#8211; no standard had yet been set. The firefighters helplessly watched as the city burned.</p>
<p><a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Great_Baltimore_Fire" target="_blank">Like Baltimore</a>, our organization will suffer if we don&#8217;t standardize our processes.&#8221;</p>
<p><a href="http://decker.com"><img class="alignleft size-full wp-image-2401" title="Great Baltimore Fire Decker SHARP" src="http://decker.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2011/11/baltfire.jpg" alt="" width="640" height="485" /></a></p>
<p>A year later, I remember this story and it&#8217;s tie to standardization. Considering I see hundreds of presentations, that&#8217;s saying something!</p>
<p>It&#8217;s so easy to fall in to the rut of starting with, &#8220;I&#8217;m here to talk to you about [insert topic here]&#8230;&#8221; or &#8220;Thanks so much for being here, I know you&#8217;re all busy, so I really appreciate your time.&#8221; By the time you&#8217;re done with a Lovely-Bunch-of-Words opening like those, guess what? You&#8217;ve likely lost your audience. They&#8217;re thinking about their next meeting, to-do list, evening&#8217;s plans.</p>
<p>Hook them in with a <a href="http://decker.com/blog/2010/03/damn-sticky-sharps-spartacus-data-integration/">SHARP</a> to grab attention from the very start, and tie it to the point of your presentation. Meaning utilize any one or more of these:</p>
<ul>
<li><strong>S</strong>tories</li>
<li><strong>H</strong>umor</li>
<li><strong>A</strong>nalogies</li>
<li><strong>R</strong>eferences &amp; Quotes</li>
<li><strong>P</strong>ictures &amp; Visuals</li>
</ul>
<p>Dive right in with something memorable instead of diluting your opener. What&#8217;s <a href="http://decker.com/blog/2009/07/the-power-of-story/">your story</a> or client example? Can you think of an analogy that will help bring your idea or product to light? Audience members are often very visual, so are there any images you could use to make a strong opening point?</p>
<p>Again, a year later, I remember the engineer&#8217;s point about needing to standardize because of the story he told at the beginning. Can your audience remember something as vividly from the presentation you gave.. say, last week?</p>
<p>Please share some of your SHARPs and how you prepare your openers!</p>
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		<title>The Significance of Storytelling</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 03 Feb 2010 11:00:01 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Ben Decker</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[After writing about Compartmentalized Communicating, I&#8217;ve been thinking about how significant storytelling is to the successful communications experience. Nothing makes that human, emotional connection better than authentic, compelling storytelling. It was Hans Rosling&#8216;s brilliant presentation of statistics at TED India that has kept this topic on my mind. As Hans demonstrates, telling a story can deliver your message almost effortlessly through the gatekeeper of the First Brain to the data processor of the New Brain. (More information on First Brain and New Brain is detailed in You&#8217;ve Got to Be Believed to Be Heard and a bit in my Compartmentalized [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>After writing about <a href="http://decker.com/blog/2010/01/compartmentali…-communicating/" target="_blank">Compartmentalized Communicating</a>, I&#8217;ve been thinking about how significant storytelling is to the successful communications experience. Nothing makes that human, emotional connection better than authentic, compelling storytelling. It was <a href="http://bit.ly/8SSHxp" target="_blank">Hans Rosling</a>&#8216;s brilliant presentation of statistics at TED India that has kept this topic on my mind.</p>
<p><a href="www.decker.com"><img class="aligncenter size-medium wp-image-1220" title="HansStick" src="http://decker.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2009/11/HansStick1-300x225.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="225" /></a></p>
<p>As Hans demonstrates, telling a story can deliver your message almost effortlessly through the gatekeeper of the First Brain to the data processor of the New Brain. (More information on First Brain and New Brain is detailed in <a href="http://www.amazon.com/Youve-Got-Believed-Heard-Updated/dp/0312374690/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&amp;s=books&amp;qid=1263083566&amp;sr=8-1" target="_blank">You&#8217;ve Got to Be Believed to Be Heard</a> and a bit in my <a href="../2010/01/compartmentali%E2%80%A6-communicating/" target="_blank">Compartmentalized Communicating</a> post.)</p>
<p>Bert wrote an excellent post on <a href="http://bit.ly/4MKtYq" target="_blank">The Power of Story</a>. It&#8217;s spot on. I&#8217;d like to add value to it with this complementary post offering a few unique resources, each providing a different perspective on storytelling.</p>
<p><strong><a href="http://www.themoth.org/" target="_blank">The Moth</a></strong>.  A non-profit organization dedicated to the art of storytelling.  With performances selling out in less than 48 hours with absolutely no advertising other than word of mouth, the demand for storytelling speaks volumes.</p>
<p style="margin-bottom: 0pt; text-align: center;"><em>“One of the hottest events in town… The Moth is an evening of</em></p>
<p style="margin-top: 0pt; margin-bottom: 0pt; text-align: center;"><em> unashamedly old-fashioned storytelling… </em></p>
<p style="margin-top: 0pt; margin-bottom: 0pt; text-align: center;"><em>the performances are enthralling, </em></p>
<p style="margin-top: 0pt; margin-bottom: 0pt; text-align: center;"><em>funny and moving, with a typical New York intensity.” </em></p>
<p style="margin-top: 0pt; text-align: center;"><em>- The Times (London)</em></p>
<p style="text-align: center; margin-bottom: 0pt;"><em>“The success of The Moth is one example of </em></p>
<p style="text-align: center; margin-top: 0pt; margin-bottom: 0pt;"><em>the phenomenon of storytelling that is gaining momentum </em></p>
<p style="text-align: center; margin-top: 0pt; margin-bottom: 0pt;"><em>nationwide. In The Moth’s case, these narrative </em></p>
<p style="text-align: center; margin-top: 0pt; margin-bottom: 0pt;"><em>sessions are fast becoming an institution.” </em></p>
<p style="text-align: center; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-style: italic;">- The New York Times</span></p>
<p>&#8220;We celebrate the ability of stories to honor the diversity and commonality of human experience, and to satisfy a vital human need for connection.&#8221; &#8211; from <a href="http://www.themoth.org/mission" target="_blank">The Moth&#8217;s Mission Statement</a></p>
<p><strong><a href="http://www.experienceproject.com/index.php" target="_blank">Experience Project</a>.</strong> The world&#8217;s largest living collection of shared experiences, with over 24 experience categories.  Launched in 2007, boasting nearly 3.5 million experiences shared, this is place where individuals share their stories in an anonymous, comfortable and supportive place.  A unique website revealing the human hunger to share and read stories, this website is also a useful tool for communicators to search for stories and ideas from categories such as Education, Entertainment, Politics, Business, Relationships, to name a few.  From confessions to inspirational stories, the Experience Project is an excellent resource for exploring the stories that connect human experience.</p>
<p><strong><a href="http://www.problogger.net/archives/2009/11/04/why-stories-are-an-effective-communication-tool-for-your-blog/" target="_blank">Problogger.net: Why Stories are an Effective Communication Tool for Your Blog</a>.</strong> This popular blog by Darren Rowse (<a href="http://twitter.com/problogger" target="_blank">@problogger</a>) highlights for the blogging community what Decker emphasizes for communicators.  In researching the historical data for his blog, Darren learned that story blog posts were among the most popular over the last five years.  His bullet point list of why stories are valuable for bloggers applies to all communicators, aligned with  Bert&#8217;s <a href="http://decker.com/blog/2009/07/the-power-of-story/" target="_blank"><em>The Power of Story</em></a> blog post earlier this year.</p>
<ul>
<li>Stories engage the <em>imagination</em> of readers <span style="color: #666699;">[listeners]</span><img class="alignright size-full wp-image-653" title="fatherchildonbeach" src="http://decker.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2009/11/fatherchildonbeach2.jpg" alt="fatherchildonbeach" width="146" height="139" /></li>
<li>Stories go <em>beyond facts and theories</em></li>
<li>Stories <em>reveal</em> something about yourself as a      blogger <span style="color: #666699;">[communicator]</span> (they’re      <a href="http://www.problogger.net/archives/2009/10/28/the-power-of-being-personal-on-your-blog/">personal</a>)</li>
<li>Stories trigger <em>emotions</em> and the <em>senses</em></li>
<li>Stories are <em>conversational</em> <em>-</em> they      stimulate others to react and tell their stories <span style="color: #666699;">[to you, to others and in their own communications experiences]</span></li>
<li>Stories provide <em>hooks</em> for readers <span style="color: #666699;">[listeners ] </span>to latch onto your      blogging <span style="color: #666699;">[message]</span> (they’re relatable)</li>
<li>Stories grab and hold the <em>attention</em> of readers <span style="color: #666699;">[listeners]</span></li>
<li>Stories are <em>memorable</em> – while people don’t      always latch onto facts and figures – a good story can be remembered for      years</li>
<li>Stories <em>illustrate</em> your points in ways that can      be much more <em>convincing</em> (and <em>convicting</em>) than other types of      information</li>
</ul>
<p>The common thread of these three sites is clear.  People love stories; stories connect them to each other in the most basic human way. Stories are bridges between our humanity and the objective of our presentations. Something so significant should be shared.</p>
<p>Photo credit:  <a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/zinkwazi/422786664/sizes/s/" target="_blank">zinkwazi</a></p>
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		<title>Compartmentalized Communicating</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 26 Jan 2010 18:40:07 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Ben Decker</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[“I’m good at sharing facts. I don&#8217;t have to use emotion very often, but when I do, I need to speak at the emotion more.” This came from a client in a recent Platinum Session, referring to the commonly-held belief that engaging emotions is an effort we make only for those presentations intended to motivate and inspire. For this client, he viewed the majority of his presentations as just providing information. It&#8217;s human tendency to compartmentalize. We segment ourselves in all sorts of ways, including ideas about how we should communicate. It seems natural to separate motivational and inspirational focused [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p style="text-align: center;"><em>“I’m good at sharing facts. I don&#8217;t have to use emotion very often, but when I do, I need to speak at the emotion more.”</em></p>
<p><a href="http://decker.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2010/01/490072532_f05b827202_o2.jpg"><img class="alignleft size-full wp-image-1108" title="490072532_f05b827202_o" src="http://decker.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2010/01/490072532_f05b827202_o2.jpg" alt="" width="144" height="176" /></a>This came from a client in a recent <a href="http://bit.ly/6cw880" target="_blank">Platinum Session</a>, referring to the commonly-held belief that engaging emotions is an effort we make only for those presentations intended to <em>motivate and inspire</em>. For this client, he viewed the majority of his presentations as <em>just providing information</em>.</p>
<p>It&#8217;s human tendency to compartmentalize. We segment ourselves in all sorts of ways, including ideas about how we should communicate. It seems natural to separate motivational and inspirational focused speeches from data delivery presentations. However, what&#8217;s &#8220;natural&#8221; is not always best. A fragmented mindset can backfire when it comes to communication.</p>
<p>I asked this client a couple of questions:</p>
<ul>
<li>Do you ever give a presentation in which you’re <strong><em>not</em></strong> presenting data?</li>
<li>Do you ever give a presentation in which you have <strong><em>no</em></strong> intention of impacting your audience?</li>
</ul>
<p>By definition, a presentation intends to make an impact by conveying information. You can&#8217;t make an impact if your data doesn&#8217;t reach its destination (the receptive minds of your listeners). Though we might categorize presentations into different types, communication &#8211; by  definition &#8211; involves both emotion and information.</p>
<h3>The key to <strong>succ</strong><strong>essful </strong>communicating is realizing that  all communication is an opportunity to motivate and inspire, and all  communication requires emotional connection to make an impact.</h3>
<p>Bert wrote about this in <a href="http://bit.ly/7nXuoo" target="_blank">You&#8217;ve Got to Be Believed to Be Heard</a>. People buy on emotion and justify with fact. You can&#8217;t connect with the mind &#8211; the New Brain (Cerebral Cortex) &#8211; without first getting past the gatekeeper &#8211; the First Brain (Brain Stem and Limbic System). The First Brain is the seat of emotion and emotional response. Data destined for the New Brain travels through the filter of the First Brain. The First Brain is where the human connection (likability, credibility and trust) is measured. Without getting past the First Brain, the information intended to reach the New Brain hits a brick wall. No matter what type of presentation you are giving, if you want to produce results, you need to be human.  You need to incorporate your emotions.  You need to connect with the hearts and minds of your audience.</p>
<p><a href="http://bit.ly/8SSHxp" target="_blank">Hans Rosling</a> is a master at bridging the gap between data delivery and human connection. On his <a href="http://bit.ly/7N8iDp" target="_blank">Presentation Zen</a> blog, <a href="http://bit.ly/8iGo9C" target="_blank">Garr Reynolds</a> wrote an <a href="http://www.presentationzen.com/presentationzen/2009/11/data-is-not-boring-statistics-tell-a-story.html" target="_blank">excellent post detailing how Hans does this</a>. You need only watch a minute or two of Hans in action to understand why he&#8217;s so esteemed.</p>
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<p>Hans takes data, statistics and trends (information that could easily be a &#8220;just presenting data/data dump&#8221; presentation) and engages the hearts and minds of his listeners, delivering the data right through the heart and into the mind. Through storytelling, humor and an uncanny ability to perceive and respond to the emotional pulse of his audience, Hans glides right through the First Brain and lands extensive amounts of statistical data into the New Brain, making a memorable impact.</p>
<p>It&#8217;s easy to get buried in data and compartmentalize communication into different categories &#8211; some requiring emotional connection; others not. But when we do this, we fail to recognize the significance of connecting with our listeners. This is when we need to step back and remind ourselves: <strong>Communication without emotion is just data dump. </strong>It’s disconnected; it doesn’t effect change; it doesn’t make an impact. The data has no value if it doesn&#8217;t reach its destination. Successful communication incorporates the whole self &#8211; heart and mind &#8211; to connect with others in a basic human way. The human connection is the communications experience &#8211; not the data.</p>
<p>Photo credits: <a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/cafepsicologico/490072532/" target="_blank">Café psicologico</a></p>
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