Emotion and Story Rule

You’ve heard us say it before, and we’ll say it again: People buy on emotion and justify with fact.

There’s no better place to watch emotions unfold than on the Super Bowl, and it’s no surprise to us that the commercials that stood out were the ones that got us with emotion.

Oftentimes, when we think about adding emotion, we immediately think we need to add something weepy. A sad statistic. Something gripping. But as we saw with this year’s Super Bowl commercials, emotion doesn’t have to be sad to be effective.

There are all kinds of emotions – like competition, as we saw with the Oreo “Whisper Fight” ad. Almost all of us have had a conversation about how to eat an Oreo, or which part of it is the best. This ad (which later became an ad campaign via Twitter during the game) pulled in all of our competitive emotions, as well as a little bit of fear, uncertainty and doubt.

Emotion. Story. And Connection.

To truly win on emotion, there must be some tie between the emotion and the story and the product.

Two Super Bowl ads stood out in our minds:

1. Dodge Ram – So God Made A Farmer - This ad tipped its hat to a slice of Americana, and it targeted the people who drive Dodge Ram trucks. Not posh hipsters, not city slickers, but people of the earth: Farmers. Even the ad, itself, was kind of quiet and a little long-winded, tapping into an identity and attaching the product with the customers, much like the Don’t Mess with Texas campaign as described in Made to Stick. Emotion. Story. And Connection. (What’s more, as reported by The Wall Street Journal, the brand saw a 55% increase in search activity after the game.)

2. Budweiser – Brotherhood. This year, we watched the heartwarming story of the man raising a Budweiser Clydesdale (birthing, bottle-feeding, sleeping in the stall) to become a part of the Budweiser team. Paired brilliantly with Fleetwood Mac’s “Landslide,” connected us with the lasting love of parents, children, siblings and pets everywhere. Budweiser has developed the Clydesdales as brand icons since 1933, making the indelible connection between their emotional story and their brand.

We also saw ads that were highly emotional, but had no connection to the product. Jeep’s “Whole Again” commercial, featuring America’s troops and a voice over by Oprah, was high on the heart-string-o-meter, but it ranked low on connection between why we were feeling emotional (love and sacrifice of our Troops) and what we were supposed to be buying (a Jeep). The same was true with the GoDaddy ads (#TheKiss didn’t make us think about a new web domain for Decker – it made us want to barf and shield our kids’ eyes).

Chances are your next big presentation won’t cost you $126,000 per second like this year’s Super Bowl spots. And you probably won’t have an entire agency to help chisel the details. But you can utilize emotion, story and connection to improve your next presentation, meeting or call.

Here’s our DIY guide:

Start by stirring something inside of your listeners. Whether you take 30 seconds (like Oreo) or a full 2 minutes (like Dodge Ram), urge your audience to feel something.

Then, find a link that connects that emotion back to your message. It’s not enough to start with an emotional story and launch into something that’s unrelated. What emotions convey your news? Your perspective? Don’t just open Pandora’s box of emotions, stay relevant and stay on point. For a great example, check out Frank Warren.

Close and cinch the emotional connection. People will remember your story, but your goal is for them to remember your message. Infuse emotion, all the way into your close. Google’s Chief Executive Larry Page did this extremely well on his most recent earnings call, by urging people to focus on “things that matter in life…living, learning and loving.”

What Super Bowl commercial connected with you and why? Tell us in the comments, or check out the results of the Decker Team Super Bowl Ad Poll on Facebook and tell us there.

The Significance of Storytelling

After writing about Compartmentalized Communicating, I’ve been thinking about how significant storytelling is to the successful communications experience. Nothing makes that human, emotional connection better than authentic, compelling storytelling. It was Hans Rosling‘s brilliant presentation of statistics at TED India that has kept this topic on my mind.

As Hans demonstrates, telling a story can deliver your message almost effortlessly through the gatekeeper of the First Brain to the data processor of the New Brain. (More information on First Brain and New Brain is detailed in You’ve Got to Be Believed to Be Heard and a bit in my Compartmentalized Communicating post.)

Bert wrote an excellent post on The Power of Story. It’s spot on. I’d like to add value to it with this complementary post offering a few unique resources, each providing a different perspective on storytelling.

The Moth.  A non-profit organization dedicated to the art of storytelling.  With performances selling out in less than 48 hours with absolutely no advertising other than word of mouth, the demand for storytelling speaks volumes.

“One of the hottest events in town… The Moth is an evening of

unashamedly old-fashioned storytelling…

the performances are enthralling,

funny and moving, with a typical New York intensity.”

- The Times (London)

“The success of The Moth is one example of

the phenomenon of storytelling that is gaining momentum

nationwide. In The Moth’s case, these narrative

sessions are fast becoming an institution.”

- The New York Times

“We celebrate the ability of stories to honor the diversity and commonality of human experience, and to satisfy a vital human need for connection.” – from The Moth’s Mission Statement

Experience Project. The world’s largest living collection of shared experiences, with over 24 experience categories.  Launched in 2007, boasting nearly 3.5 million experiences shared, this is place where individuals share their stories in an anonymous, comfortable and supportive place.  A unique website revealing the human hunger to share and read stories, this website is also a useful tool for communicators to search for stories and ideas from categories such as Education, Entertainment, Politics, Business, Relationships, to name a few.  From confessions to inspirational stories, the Experience Project is an excellent resource for exploring the stories that connect human experience.

Problogger.net: Why Stories are an Effective Communication Tool for Your Blog. This popular blog by Darren Rowse (@problogger) highlights for the blogging community what Decker emphasizes for communicators.  In researching the historical data for his blog, Darren learned that story blog posts were among the most popular over the last five years.  His bullet point list of why stories are valuable for bloggers applies to all communicators, aligned with  Bert’s The Power of Story blog post earlier this year.

  • Stories engage the imagination of readers [listeners]fatherchildonbeach
  • Stories go beyond facts and theories
  • Stories reveal something about yourself as a blogger [communicator] (they’re personal)
  • Stories trigger emotions and the senses
  • Stories are conversational - they stimulate others to react and tell their stories [to you, to others and in their own communications experiences]
  • Stories provide hooks for readers [listeners ] to latch onto your blogging [message] (they’re relatable)
  • Stories grab and hold the attention of readers [listeners]
  • Stories are memorable – while people don’t always latch onto facts and figures – a good story can be remembered for years
  • Stories illustrate your points in ways that can be much more convincing (and convicting) than other types of information

The common thread of these three sites is clear.  People love stories; stories connect them to each other in the most basic human way. Stories are bridges between our humanity and the objective of our presentations. Something so significant should be shared.

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