The Audience Only Gets What You Give Them

Halloween Mask Iterations

The mask used by Michael Myers in the original “Halloween” was actually a Captain Kirk mask, painted white, due to low budget.

Did you know that? I sure didn’t – I was so darn focused on how frightening he was. (Although after reading this fact on an airplane, I couldn’t stop thinking about it.)

This is a great reminder that the audience only gets what you give them.

And what do I mean by that?

That amazing analogy you skipped right over? They’ll never know.

The feature you were supposed to highlight with your laser beam, but the batteries stopped working? They didn’t know you had a laser.

The degree of panic and nervous jitters that swarmed in your stomach? Only if you show them through nervous gestures instead of confident ones. If it helps, try to fake it ‘til you become it.

So don’t walk off that stage and kick yourself for forgetting something, and don’t make a big deal when there is a technical snafu. Proceed as usual, and remember that your confidence and will carry you through.

 

Authenticity Trumps All

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Where It All Begins: Your Listeners

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Avoid Conference Call Hell

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Crisis Communication: Power of Your Voice

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Coordinating Schedules? You Can Do Better.

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A Real MVP

Before this week, I only knew Kevin Durant as a prolific NBA scorer and a star from the movie Thunderstruck (a family movie that my boys love). After watching his MVP speech, I now feel differently. You may or may not know (or like) Kevin Durant, but your attitude will … Continue reading

Commencement Speech: How to Rock It

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Establishing Executive Presence

The phrase “executive presence” is not new, but it’s gaining traction. I heard it referenced in seven meetings with executives from seven different companies last week, alone. What does it mean? It’s a way to describe confidence. Not to be confused with arrogance, demonstrating executive presence means showing that we … Continue reading

Literally – Just a Filler Word

If there were Survivor for words, I’d vote off “literally.” It’s inserted into sentences for no real reason. Consider: I am literally the hungriest person in the world right now. I am literally going to break this printer in a minute. The coffee machine is literally the slowest thing on … Continue reading