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		<title>The Top Ten Best (and Worst) Communicators of 2011</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[Our Top Ten Communicators List is all about Trust and Vision. Happily, we start with the Best list, where we honor those who communicate and lead well. Unfortunately, those who dominate the Worst list have garnered most of the attention in 2011 – for lack of trust on the high end and deception on the low end. We have seen the fall of giants, as well as the sleaze of some we have never heard of. Just put these names together: Sandusky, Paterno, McQueary, Cain, Bialek, White, Fine, Boeheim, Sheen, Weiner and the list could go on and on to [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong>Our Top Ten Communicators List </strong>is all about Trust and Vision. Happily, we start with the Best list, where we honor those who communicate and lead well. Unfortunately, those who dominate the Worst list have garnered most of the attention in 2011 – for lack of trust on the high end and deception on the low end.</p>
<p>We have seen the fall of giants, as well as the sleaze of some we have never heard of. Just put these names together: Sandusky, Paterno, McQueary, Cain, Bialek, White, Fine, Boeheim, Sheen, Weiner and the list could go on and on to include CEO’s, politicians, Trustees, and celebrities. We name some of them in our Worst list, but we do not get into those tainted by the many sexual abuse cases that have reared their ugly heads in the last few months. Too much “he said, she said” and outright lying – we really yearn for those we can hear, trust, and follow. So here they are &#8211; on the Best list:</p>
<h1>The 10 Best</h1>
<h3>1. Steve Jobs – perhaps the communicator of the decade, or century.</h3>
<p><a href="http://decker.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2011/12/Steve-Jobs-Best-Communicator-of-the-Year1.jpg"><img class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-2789" title="Steve Jobs Best Communicator of the Year" src="http://decker.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2011/12/Steve-Jobs-Best-Communicator-of-the-Year1.jpg" alt="" width="600" height="223" /></a></p>
<p>Steve Jobs was the rare one who created and developed vision, communicated it clearly and colorfully, and then led to completion. He has been on our Best list four times, was <a href="http://decker.com/blog/2005/12/the-top-ten-best-and-worst-communicators-of-2005/" target="_blank">#1 in 2005</a>, and presented his <a href="http://youtu.be/jqtD4x6_Ulc" target="_blank">iconic intro of the iPhone in 2007</a>. He not only transformed technology and the way we live, but he also transformed the way business communicates. Renowned for his Apple product introductions he moved the word “rock  star” into the business world. For CEO’s, <a href="http://decker.com/blog/2011/10/steve-jobs-the-communicator/">speaking will never be the  same.</a> No more Death by PowerPoint – he just used a few visuals, and then spoke from the heart. Well rehearsed, but real – authentic, and always with a message. Perhaps his greatest “speech” was at the <a href="http://youtu.be/gokdxb-UW0I" target="_blank">Stanford University commencement in 2005</a>. His message continues to echo and be a model for not only business, but the larger world. We will miss him.</p>
<h3>2. Howard Schultz &#8211; the all around business leader/communicator.</h3>
<p><a href="http://decker.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2011/12/Howard-Schultz-Best-Communicator-of-the-Year-2.jpg"><img class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-2776" title="Howard Schultz Best Communicator of the Year" src="http://decker.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2011/12/Howard-Schultz-Best-Communicator-of-the-Year-2.jpg" alt="" width="600" height="224" /></a></p>
<p>Schultz uses excellent communications to consistently <a title="Schultz on leadership at Starbucks" href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=K1WmackWSQY" target="_blank">lead Starbucks to success.</a> He began the <a href="http://www.myprimetime.com/work/ge/schultzbio/" target="_blank">Starbucks journey in 1987</a> when he had to convince people to invest and buy at the start, then inspire with vision to grow. Then <a href="http://video.cnbc.com/gallery/?video=3000045897" target="_blank">in 2008 Schultz had to communicate with firmness</a> tough decisions to fire and close stores in turning around Starbucks when they had lost their way. This year he wrote <a href="http://www.amazon.com/Onward-Starbucks-Fought-without-Losing/dp/B005X48XN4/ref=ntt_at_ep_dpt_1" target="_blank">a best seller, Onward,</a> and also <a href="http://decker.com/blog/tag/ceo-howard-schultz/" target="_blank">we did a blog post</a> on how he elevated his communications to join in <a href="http://youtu.be/Eu8g_O4-23g" target="_blank">national, political and economic dialogue</a>. Always the innovator, now he is visioning a new juice brand with <a href="http://articles.businessinsider.com/2011-11-10/strategy/30381422_1_jamba-juice-ceo-howard-schultz-today-starbucks" target="_blank">his purchase of Evolution Fresh</a>. All this is the work of a master leader/communicator.</p>
<h3>3. Chris Anderson &#8211; elevating speech in the TED format.</h3>
<p><a href="http://decker.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2011/12/Chris-Anderson-Best-Communicator-of-the-Year1.jpg"><img class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-2731" title="Chris Anderson Best Communicator of the Year" src="http://decker.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2011/12/Chris-Anderson-Best-Communicator-of-the-Year1.jpg" alt="" width="600" height="291" /></a></p>
<p>Founder of the <a href="http://www.ted.com/" target="_blank">wildly popular TED Talks</a>, Anderson is a visionary who uses speaking and video communication to contribute to the world around him. <a href="http://www.ted.com/speakers/chris_anderson_ted.html" target="_blank">His ability to verbalize the essence of TED</a> continues to inspire the  best and the brightest to participate, leaving viewers with hours of  juicy content to imbibe. People are so inspired by the concept that there are <a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sgi_3WMRMVI" target="_blank">independent mini-TED conferences</a> springing up all over the world – and <a href="http://www.ted.com/talks/chris_anderson_how_web_video_powers_global_innovation.html" target="_blank">Anderson continues to speak out to support the movement.</a> His challenge to companies to add value when advertising with <a href="http://www.reelseo.com/ted-ads-worth-spreading-2011/" target="_blank">Ads Worth Spreading</a> is another mark of Chris Anderson as a leader and innovator in the world of communications.</p>
<h3>4. Virginia Rometty &#8211; communicating on the fast track.</h3>
<p><a href="http://decker.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2011/12/Virginia-Rommety-Best-Communicator-of-the-Year.jpg"><img class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-2738" title="Virginia Rommety Best Communicator of the Year" src="http://decker.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2011/12/Virginia-Rommety-Best-Communicator-of-the-Year.jpg" alt="" width="600" height="242" /></a></p>
<p>For the last seven years <a href="http://money.cnn.com/magazines/fortune/most-powerful-women/2011/snapshots/7.html" target="_blank">Fortune named Virginia Rometty</a> as one of the top 50 most influential women (#8 this year) &#8211; for good reason. This year she became the first female CEO of IBM. And as bright as she was and is, it was largely her communications that elevated her. Leadership is executed through communications, and <a href="http://youtu.be/_hiFXsgoMfs" target="_blank">‘Ginni’ is likeable, strong, memorable</a>, and connects with <a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DKmj7nlQndg" target="_blank">large audiences in a very authentic style.</a> She is a natural at incorporating <a href="http://decker.com/blog/2010/03/damn-sticky-sharps-spartacus-data-integration/">SHARPs</a> in all her communication, and does it skillfully and naturally.  Their stock is at an all time high – and we doubt that it&#8217;s a coincidence.</p>
<h3>5. Chris Christie &#8211; a political poster child for authenticity.</h3>
<p><a href="http://decker.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2011/12/Chris-Christie-Best-Communicator-of-the-Year.jpg"><img class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-2741" title="Chris Christie Best Communicator of the Year" src="http://decker.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2011/12/Chris-Christie-Best-Communicator-of-the-Year.jpg" alt="" width="600" height="269" /></a></p>
<p>Although it seems like every year now is a political year, this one is a whopper. With Obama already actively campaigning for 2012, <a href="http://abcnews.go.com/blogs/politics/2011/10/chris-christie-not-running-for-president/" target="_blank">over 30! Republican debates</a>, and allegations flying at many of the candidates – who do we believe? Who is authentic? <a href="http://decker.com/blog/2011/10/plastic-vs-authentic-insights-from-the-republican-debates/" target="_blank">Chris Christie leads the pack</a> – for even his enemies say that <a href="http://youtu.be/Zvy7Rug_SVI" target="_blank">he means what he says and says what he means</a>. His manner is direct, often gruff, <a href="http://abcnews.go.com/Politics/video/chris-christie-thinks-david-letterman-weight-jokes-are-funny-14664822">more often funny.</a> But few question his sincerity, as he is unique in <a href="http://abcnews.go.com/blogs/politics/2011/10/chris-christie-not-running-for-president/" target="_blank">refusing to run in order to finish his job as Governor</a>. Many Republicans wish he was running in the primary, for it’s no coincidence that his communication skills match his ability to get things done in turning around the economy in New Jersey against all political odds. He can persuade public opinion with the best of them.</p>
<h3>6. Lady Gaga &#8211; speaking out with multi-dimensional creativity.</h3>
<p><a href="http://decker.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2011/12/Lady-Gaga-Best-Communicator-of-the-Year.jpg"><img class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-2778" title="Lady Gaga Best Communicator of the Year" src="http://decker.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2011/12/Lady-Gaga-Best-Communicator-of-the-Year.jpg" alt="" width="600" height="233" /></a></p>
<p>She’s full of surprises and loves to shock us, but what’s even more surprising is <a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zgV8T2aBaJ8">her communication ability.</a> Although Lady Gaga projects a character that’s pretty out there (think meat dress, rotary telephone sticking out of her head, and <a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cggNqDAtJYU" target="_blank">her new groundbreaking 14’ music video</a>) we can all learn from her creativity. She personifies originality and pushing the edge, and we all need to do a little more of that. Yet when she speaks, she’s articulate. Gaga comes across well beyond her years &#8211; <a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BU_gUWnTI9k">poised, confident, and sincere. </a>When interviewed, especially about her Little Monsters (aka fans), her <a href="http://youtu.be/i6M1Qh2wE84" target="_blank">genuine adoration for them is clear</a>, and she becomes again, surprisingly, human. Gaga can own a stage not only with her songs, but also with her <a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HyB9qsRNjIM" target="_blank">goosebump-inducing cadence when delivering a speech.</a></p>
<h3>7. Warren Buffett &#8211; years of consistent communications.</h3>
<p><a href="http://decker.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2011/12/Warren-Buffett-Best-Communicator-of-the-Year.jpg"><img class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-2744" title="Warren Buffett Best Communicator of the Year" src="http://decker.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2011/12/Warren-Buffett-Best-Communicator-of-the-Year.jpg" alt="" width="600" height="267" /></a></p>
<p>It’s been a long time coming – Buffett lands himself on the list for his consistently strong communications over the years. While he is an investor and businessman, the <a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xVOn371TCPo" target="_blank">way he speaks and conveys his ideas</a> have made him an icon. He even has spoken on <a href="http://youtu.be/4P1OpahXKjM" target="_blank">the importance of getting training in speaking</a>! People look to him for wisdom and sage advice. He’s a trusted leader, and known to say what he thinks, even if it’s unexpected and potentially unpopular. Most notably this year, Buffett raised eyebrows with <a href="http://www.nytimes.com/2011/08/15/opinion/stop-coddling-the-super-rich.html?_r=2" target="_blank">his call for more taxes on the wealthy</a>. And his credibility is supreme, as he was the leader who corralled a bunch of other billionaires to give away their $$$ to charity – leading off with personally donating the largest charitable donation in U.S. history of $31 billion. He puts his money where his mouth is. Although he doesn&#8217;t often give long speeches, <a href="http://youtu.be/l9p0coPJj1U" target="_blank">he&#8217;s authentic and powerful when he does</a>, contributing to his long-cultivated reputation as <a href="http://blogs.wsj.com/wealth/2011/10/27/most-millionaires-support-warren-buffetts-tax-on-the-rich/" target="_blank">a respected thought-leader</a>.</p>
<h3>8. Christine Lagarde &#8211; speaking powerfully from the top of the financial world.</h3>
<p><a href="http://decker.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2011/12/Christine-Lagarde-Best-Communicator-of-the-Year1.jpg"><img class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-2780" title="Christine Lagarde Best Communicator of the Year" src="http://decker.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2011/12/Christine-Lagarde-Best-Communicator-of-the-Year1.jpg" alt="" width="599" height="240" /></a></p>
<p><a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=brmiJ36tNew" target="_blank">She is elegant, stylish and stately </a>– and tough as nails. It’s not a wonder that Christine Lagarde was elected head of the IMF after the Dominick Strauss Kahn scandal. She was the one who could handle the turmoil, and bring direction to this large and important agency. She speaks with clarity and firmness, and in so doing, marks herself as one of the top communicators in the world. She is <a href="http://youtu.be/BUeTe5DiKRg" target="_blank">articulate yet pointed</a>. She knows the facts yet summarizes the key points. She is <a href="http://youtu.be/TwiZb4XQbS8" target="_blank">calm, knowledgeable, measured, and yet forceful in IMF policy in Italy</a>. With one of her most charming and powerful qualities being candor<a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5iYIUMJB6_E" target="_blank"> she speaks with firmness and grace,</a> and handles interviews well. <a href="http://youtu.be/mZXuERDdXwM" target="_blank">She communicates as the leader she is</a>, and if Strauss hadn’t vacated the post she would have ended up leading some other major organization.</p>
<h3>9. Morgan Spurlock &#8211; high energy and a distinctive style puts him in his own films.</h3>
<p><a href="http://decker.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2011/12/Morgan-Spurlock-Best-Communicator-of-the-Year.jpg"><img class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-2729" title="Morgan Spurlock Best Communicator of the Year" src="http://decker.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2011/12/Morgan-Spurlock-Best-Communicator-of-the-Year.jpg" alt="" width="600" height="250" /></a></p>
<p>Whether he’s stuffing his face with Big Macs or recruiting sponsors for <a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6c0VtOdibcI" target="_blank">his own 2011 TED Talk</a> Spurlock’s high energy and distinctive style continues to capture our attention. <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Morgan_Spurlock" target="_blank">He puts himself in the middle</a> of his documentaries, like his <a href="http://youtu.be/uEXcf_3XaP4" target="_blank">Academy Award nominated &#8220;Super Size Me&#8221;</a> where he skillfully walks the line between outlandish and down to earth. Most recently his camera shined a light on movie product placement with <a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=T4Ng2P3zxfM" target="_blank">&#8220;The Greatest Movie Ever Sold.</a>&#8221; It’s Spurlock’s pervasive curiosity, <a href="http://www.colbertnation.com/the-colbert-report-videos/381644/april-13-2011/morgan-spurlock" target="_blank">grab-a-beer-with-me approachability</a>, and passion that keep us watching and waiting for his next expose.</p>
<h3>10. Andy Rooney &#8211; a tribute to creating a unique communications experience.</h3>
<p><a href="http://decker.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2011/12/Andy-Rooney-Best-Communicator-of-the-Year.jpg"><img class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-2750" title="Andy Rooney Best Communicator of the Year" src="http://decker.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2011/12/Andy-Rooney-Best-Communicator-of-the-Year.jpg" alt="" width="600" height="261" /></a></p>
<p>This cranky, prickly mainstay communicator of 60 Minutes <a href="http://www.nytimes.com/2011/11/06/us/andy-rooney-mainstay-on-60-minutes-dead-at-92.html?pagewanted=all" target="_blank">was 92 in age, but young in heart and vitality.</a> Andy Rooney continued until his death stating it like it was – as he saw it. In all, <a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bo5f_YkwQ0Q" target="_blank">he delivered 1,097 commentaries</a>. You might have disagreed, but <a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PMQL6_dAzQQ" target="_blank">you would laugh along with him.</a> His energy, forward lean, facial mannerisms and bushy eyebrows made him someone we enjoyed watching and listening to. He made every time we saw and heard him a unique communication experience, and we will miss his witty insights.</p>
<h1>The 10 Worst</h1>
<h3>1. Anthony Weiner &#8211; poster child for deceptive communications.</h3>
<p><a href="http://decker.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2011/12/Anthony-Weiner-Worst-Communicator-of-the-Year.jpg"><img class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-2725" title="Anthony Weiner Worst Communicator of the Year" src="http://decker.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2011/12/Anthony-Weiner-Worst-Communicator-of-the-Year.jpg" alt="" width="600" height="277" /></a></p>
<p>There is a poster child for this year’s theme of deception and evasion that is so pervasive in so many of the worst communicators of 2011. Anthony Weiner <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Anthony_Weiner" target="_blank">was a respected congressman</a> – elected as much by his communications as his deeds. Using that same confident style, he was <a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OtpsFcjGrwM" target="_blank">filled with puffed up outrage</a> when claiming his Twitter account was hacked by someone <em>else</em> showing his lewd photos. Turns out we were the ones to be deceived by his lies, and <a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wGLIP-LmzhM" target="_blank">when he fessed up that it was him who tweeted</a>, he continued to obfuscate, <a href="http://www.minnpost.com/worldcsm/2011/06/13/29093/abandoned_by_party_leaders_how_long_can_anthony_weiner_hang_on" target="_blank">trying to hang on to his office.</a> But he had to hang it up, as his communications this time did him in. He had no apology, in both substance and style. He ultimately resigned in disgrace – because of the photos sure, but just as much because of communications that lacked any degree of humility, credibility and above all leadership. We don’t follow liars very well.</p>
<h3>2. Brian Harrison and Bill Stover &#8211; Solyndra execs just do not communicate.</h3>
<p><a href="http://decker.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2011/12/Brian-Harrison-Bill-Stover-Worst-Communicator-of-the-Year1.jpg"><img class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-2717" title="Brian Harrison Bill Stover Worst Communicator of the Year" src="http://decker.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2011/12/Brian-Harrison-Bill-Stover-Worst-Communicator-of-the-Year1.jpg" alt="" width="600" height="260" /></a></p>
<p>It’s never a good idea to NOT communicate when you are under fire, in business as well as in politics and sex scandals. Brevity and effective diversion is one thing, <a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=A13xktz5d34" target="_blank">stonewalling is something else</a>. When you take the 5<span style="font-size: 11px;">th</span>, you are shoving your communications right slap in the face of the public – unless you perhaps can do it with a smile, or sense of regret. No regret here, as both Harrison and Stover show how closed communications will not further the cause – <a href="http://abcnews.go.com/Blotter/solyndra-ceo-brian-harrison-resigns/story?id=14731054#.TsHxKvHD6Cg" target="_blank">but will doom it</a>. Such performance reminds us of a few other Worst Communicators we featured here, <a href="http://decker.com/blog/2005/12/the-top-ten-best-and-worst-communicators-of-2005/">like Mark McGuire in 2005.</a> Communicating effectively is most critical under the toughest pressure &#8211; best to practice before. And it helps to not be guilty&#8230;</p>
<h3>3. Charlie Sheen &#8211; erratic does not pay.</h3>
<p><a href="http://decker.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2011/12/Charlie-Sheen-Worst-Communicator-of-the-Year1.jpg"><img class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-2719" title="Charlie Sheen Worst Communicator of the Year" src="http://decker.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2011/12/Charlie-Sheen-Worst-Communicator-of-the-Year1.jpg" alt="" width="600" height="274" /></a></p>
<p>This can’t be a huge surprise for anyone who has watched TV or read the news in the last year. Charlie Sheen lost control and went on a rampage not once, twice, but for a <a href="http://www.etonline.com/news/108134_Charlie_Sheen_s_Meltdown_Timeline/index.html?photo=12" target="_blank">significant portion of 2011.</a> While Sheen has come out saying <a href="http://www.nbclosangeles.com/entertainment/television/Charlie-Sheen-Meltdown-was-One-Weird-Phase-129944943.html" target="_blank">it was “one weird phase,”</a> his sustained communication faux pas was much more – it was the start of his fall. Following the example of Mel Gibson <a href="http://decker.com/blog/2010/12/the-top-ten-best-and-worst-communicators-of-2010/" target="_blank">(#5 on 2010 Worst List)</a>, Sheen lost his television role after unleashing <a href="http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2011/02/25/charlie-sheen-rant-audio_n_828186.html" target="_blank">a furious rant </a> about his <em>Two and a Half Men</em> producer, and then spun off to <a href="http://www.hollywoodreporter.com/news/charlie-sheen-tour-what-critics-174207" target="_blank">rant across the country on a failed tour </a>. As Sheen <a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SGVcqa7qcEg" target="_blank">preached about winning</a>, he was actually failing by becoming a joke. He may be <a href="http://www.foxnews.com/opinion/2011/09/25/can-charlie-sheen-make-comeback/" target="_blank">attempting a comeback</a>, but Sheen is a painfully clear example of how erratic communication can destroy a reputation, and perhaps a career.</p>
<h3>4. The Murdochs &amp; Ms. Brooks &#8211; followers communicate like their leaders.</h3>
<p><a href="http://decker.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2011/12/Rupert-Murdoch-Jim-Murdoch-Rebekah-Brooks-Worst-Communicators-of-the-Year.jpg"><img class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-2735" title="Rupert Murdoch Jim Murdoch Rebekah Brooks Worst Communicators of the Year" src="http://decker.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2011/12/Rupert-Murdoch-Jim-Murdoch-Rebekah-Brooks-Worst-Communicators-of-the-Year.jpg" alt="" width="600" height="273" /></a></p>
<p>This motley crew went on the defensive in the wake of their <a href="http://www.thedailybeast.com/newsweek/2011/07/17/how-the-guardian-broke-the-news-of-the-world-hacking-scandal.html" target="_blank">cell phone hacking scandal</a> this year, communicating elusively and trying to get away with as much as possible. Father Rupert’s history of aloofness and arrogance caught up with him this year, especially as he <a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mPp-umbFyDY" target="_blank">brushed off his apologies</a> to those affected by the hackings. Son Jim spoke most during their <a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Qez5Vvc3k-M" target="_blank">parliamentary hearings</a> and found himself hissing like a cornered animal, only further highlighting his deception. To top it off, News Corp staff Rebekah Brooks, when announcing to her News of the World team that they’re jobless due to her mismanagement, spent most of the time <a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5x7qxzpcZDQ" target="_blank">talking about her <em>own</em> feelings</a> – unsurprisingly, her staff pushed back on her arrogance. Guilty of bad journalism practices isn’t the only question here – these three are guilty of poor communication.</p>
<h3>5. Rick Perry &#8211; it&#8217;s not just the one miscue, but the overall experience.</h3>
<p><a href="http://decker.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2011/12/Rick-Perry-Worst-Communicator-of-the-Year.jpg"><img class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-2733" title="Rick Perry Worst Communicator of the Year" src="http://decker.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2011/12/Rick-Perry-Worst-Communicator-of-the-Year.jpg" alt="" width="600" height="269" /></a></p>
<p>Rick Perry had the most publicized <a href="http://decker.com/blog/2011/11/what-happened-rick/" target="_blank">communication failure of the year</a> with his brain freeze in remembering his third point in a very public setting. The Rule of Three is good, but you don’t want to say “There are three things…” in advance in a very public forum such as a Presidential Debate unless you know you will remember them. Or have them in your notes. So he could have topped the Worst list with that faux pax along with his early amateurish <a href="http://articles.sfgate.com/2011-11-17/news/30413298_1_perry-donor-new-polls-poll-numbers" target="_blank">debate performances</a>, marked by halting mannerisms, jerky style and hostile attacks. But he’s here in the middle because he recovered pretty well, mostly by <a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Lfxp_1MUdU8" target="_blank">poking fun at himself</a>. So at least there’s a positive learning point here &#8211; the power of humor.</p>
<h3>6. Brian Moynihan &#8211; not ready for primetime.</h3>
<p><a href="http://decker.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2011/12/Brian-Moynihan-Worst-Communicator-of-the-Year.jpg"><img class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-2783" title="Brian Moynihan Worst Communicator of the Year" src="http://decker.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2011/12/Brian-Moynihan-Worst-Communicator-of-the-Year.jpg" alt="" width="600" height="254" /></a></p>
<p>Bank of America CEO Moynihan has had <a href="http://www.politico.com/news/stories/1011/65297.html" target="_blank">several missteps</a> in his first year handling the $billion behemoth, from the <a href="http://abcnews.go.com/blogs/business/2011/11/after-debit-card-uproar-bank-look-to-sneaky-fees/" target="_blank">$5 debit surcharge</a> to the foreclosure fiasco. And at a time when clear communications and leadership was required, he stumbled, most notably when causing an uproar over his excuse that BofA has a &#8220;<a href="http://articles.businessinsider.com/2011-10-07/wall_street/30253534_1_brian-moynihan-larry-kudlow-dirty-word" target="_blank">right to make a profit</a>.&#8221; You know you&#8217;re in trouble when you&#8217;re on a list of <a href="http://www.dailyfinance.com/2011/08/08/9-ceos-who-need-to-be-fired/" target="_blank">CEOs who need to be fired</a>. Business leaders can’t ‘talk’ transparency – they have to live it, and communicate it. Although the returns aren’t in yet, Brian Moynihan has a long way to go to talk straight to re-establish trust with his customers and right the bank that <a href="http://www.washingtonpost.com/blogs/plum-line/post/are-big-banks-feeling-pressure-from-occupy-wall-street/2011/11/01/gIQA4OhmcM_blog.html" target="_blank">so many feel wronged by</a>.</p>
<h3>7. Greg Mortensen &#8211; Three Cups of Deceit.</h3>
<p><a href="http://decker.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2011/12/Greg-Mortensen-Worst-Communicator-of-the-Year.jpg"><img class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-2721" title="Greg Mortensen Worst Communicator of the Year" src="http://decker.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2011/12/Greg-Mortensen-Worst-Communicator-of-the-Year.jpg" alt="" width="600" height="296" /></a></p>
<p>Communications built up the reputation and wallet of this author of the <a href="http://www.amazon.com/Three-Cups-Tea-Mission-Peace/dp/1606862170/ref=sr_1_4?ie=UTF8&amp;qid=1323234608&amp;sr=8-4" target="_blank">best selling “Three Cups of Tea”</a>. He leveraged that success and began receiving high priced fees for keynote speaking. He actually wasn’t bad – and had a great message to tell about his humanitarian aid for Pakistan women. But that confidence and forward lean style disappeared when <a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=X8Udn2lAsns" target="_blank">he was exposed by &#8220;60 Minutes&#8221;</a> &#8211;  to have lied, and possibly misused charitable funds. Nowhere is guilt more apparent in communicating style than <a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NLG_5PFfOwY" target="_blank">in this clip where he is confronted by a 60 minutes reporter</a> – it’s not just that he is caught off guard, it is his lack of eye communication, hesitation as well as subsequent behavior that shouts &#8220;guilty.” <a href="http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2011/07/14/greg-mortenson-three-cups-of-tea_n_898126.html" target="_blank">He was asked to resign, </a>and this was followed up by an acquaintance writing <a href="http://www.amazon.com/Three-Cups-Deceit-Mortenson-Humanitarian/dp/0307948765/ref=sr_1_2?ie=UTF8&amp;qid=1323234754&amp;sr=8-2" target="_blank">the book &#8220;Three Cups of Deceit&#8221;</a> that is outselling the best seller. Character and integrity are the base for the tripod of good communications.</p>
<h3>8. The Commissioners: Selig, Goodell and Stern &#8211; where leadership requires powerful communicators.</h3>
<p><a href="http://decker.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2011/12/SternGoodellSelig-Worst-Communicators-of-the-Year.jpg"><img class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-2869" title="SternGoodellSelig Worst Communicators of the Year" src="http://decker.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2011/12/SternGoodellSelig-Worst-Communicators-of-the-Year.jpg" alt="" width="600" height="300" /></a></p>
<p>For missing the leadership opportunities in the NBA, NFL and MLB we might dub them the three blind mice – but certainly not the three wise men. Although it wasn’t entirely <a href="http://blog.chron.com/nba/2011/11/as-nba-enters-its-nuclear-winter-david-stern-cannot-blame-away-his-failure/" target="_blank">the fault of David Stern</a>, the NBA Commissioner helped the league lose a couple of months of their multi-billion dollar season this year. <a href="http://bleacherreport.com/articles/733481-bud-selig-and-the-oakland-as-new-stadium-a-lack-of-leadership-and-courage" target="_blank">Under Bud Selig</a> Major League Baseball lost hundreds of millions in one of the most devastating strikes of any league several years ago. We have no giants at the helm of the big three professional sports leagues  &#8211; remember Pete Rozell, Ford Frick, Larry O’brien and Peter Ueberoth, to name a few. They were leaders who communicated, where now we have <a href="http://www.yardbarker.com/nfl/articles/goodell_leadership_lacking_in_nfl_impasse/4715145" target="_blank">Roger Goodell of the NFL</a> &#8211; he <a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=e_vvVLbrbRA" target="_blank">holds himself so meekly </a>we rarely hear of him, but at least he averted a strike. David Stern has been here since 1984 – he&#8217;s been around the longest and may be the <a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=luHR0wX0u28" target="_blank">most offensive communication wise</a> with his arrogance &#8211; holds his head high, pompously. Ironically, the healthiest league now is under <a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cIscLioPaZ0" target="_blank">the worst speaker of the three,</a> Bud Selig, who was #4 on our <a href="http://decker.com/blog/2007/12/top-ten-best-and-worst-communicators-of-2007/" target="_blank">Worst Communicators list in 2007.</a> He tends to articulate as if his mouth is full of grapes. The Commissioners lead big strong athletes, and they need to be big, strong communicators.</p>
<h3>9. Leo Apotheker &#8211; a bull in a china shop.</h3>
<p><a href="http://decker.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2011/12/Leo-Apotheker-Worst-Communicator-of-the-Year.jpg"><img class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-2787" title="Leo Apotheker Worst Communicator of the Year" src="http://decker.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2011/12/Leo-Apotheker-Worst-Communicator-of-the-Year.jpg" alt="" width="600" height="254" /></a></p>
<p>When one of the <a href="http://www.businessinsider.com/hp-firing-leo-apotheker-2011-9?utm_source=alerts&amp;nr_email_referer=1" target="_blank">three key reasons you’re fired</a> as CEO is bad communication, you’re going to make our list. Apotheker was known for going his own way, <a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=u6SCs9-MEQs&amp;feature=related" target="_blank">not communicating a clear vision for HP,</a> not getting consensus and buy-in of his executive board, and standing at the helm as HP’s stock lost nearly half it’s value. The real nail in the coffin may have been his <a href="http://www.businessinsider.com/hp-killing-the-touchpad-2011-8" target="_blank">flopped August 18 announcement</a> that HP would kill the Touch Pad and spin off the PC unit, a message that was unclear internally at HP and certainly to customers. Communicating both internally with boards and staff and externally with vision and promise is essential to great leadership. <a href="http://www.cfoworld.co.uk/news/people-management/3305587/leo-apotheker-fired-as-hp-ceo/" target="_blank">Apotheker fell short </a>and lost a huge opportunity. You can’t be a bull in a china shop without crashing a lot of plates.</p>
<h3>10. President Barack Obama &#8211; needing to communicate to unite.</h3>
<p><a href="http://decker.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2011/12/Barack-Obama-Worst-Communicator-of-the-Year.jpg"><img class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-2723" title="Barack Obama Worst Communicator of the Year" src="http://decker.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2011/12/Barack-Obama-Worst-Communicator-of-the-Year.jpg" alt="" width="600" height="277" /></a></p>
<p>The President always appears on the list – sometimes best, sometimes worst – but the bully pulpit is so powerful in America that the communication style and impact of the President has influence far beyond the issues. So it is this year – as Obama, who once <a href="http://decker.com/blog/2008/12/the-top-ten-best-and-worst-communicators-of-2008/" target="_blank">led the Best list in 2008,</a> now is the best of the worst. <a href="http://decker.com/blog/2009/12/why-obama-fails-as-a-communicator/" target="_blank">We&#8217;ve often blogged on Obama&#8217;s failure as a communicator.</a> Here it is not so much deception as evasion – where the promise of Change and Hope <a href="http://decker.com/blog/2008/11/the-bully-pulpit-is-taken/" target="_blank">was trumpeted from his Bully Pulpit so forcefully</a> that everyone believed. No longer – <a href="http://www.newsmax.com/InsideCover/Matthews-Obama-leadership-Witt/2011/11/21/id/418704" target="_blank">as leadership from the White House, and from Congress as well, has stalled.</a> Instead of a Presidential vision and message we have political maneuvering and name calling. When we need uniting, we hear dividing. Whether one agrees or disagrees with the politics of the name calling isn’t the point – the learning is that when in a position of power, a leader must trumpet a direction in spite of the circumstances. <a href="http://decker.com/blog/2009/07/obama-teleprompters-and-authenticity/" target="_blank">(And not use a teleprompter to do it.)</a></p>
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		<title>Lead like the Apple Store</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 12 Dec 2011 15:59:12 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Ben Decker</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[We know it, we&#8217;ve heard it, and this is one of the big guys behind it. Ron Johnson, while senior VP of retail for Apple, brilliantly created a retail experience that’s unsurpassed. Sure, it’s Apple&#8217;s products that make people walk in, but it’s not just the products (if it were, people would buy mostly from discount shops like Target, or online). It&#8217;s what he&#8217;s done with the Apple Store that recently landed him his new job as CEO of JC Penney. Reading about Ron in the Harvard Business Review grabbed me (highly recommend you read the article, too). I&#8217;m continuously training [...]]]></description>
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<p>We know it, we&#8217;ve heard it, and this is one of the big guys behind it. Ron Johnson, while senior VP of retail for Apple, brilliantly created a <a href="http://www.forbes.com/sites/forrester/2011/05/26/apple-store-2-0-why-customer-experience-leaders-should-care/" target="_blank">retail experience</a> that’s unsurpassed. Sure, it’s Apple&#8217;s products that make people walk in, but it’s not <em>just</em> the products (if it were, people would buy mostly from discount shops like Target, or online). It&#8217;s what he&#8217;s done with the Apple Store that recently landed him his new job as CEO of JC Penney.</p>
<p><a href="http://blogs.hbr.org/cs/2011/11/what_i_learned_building_the_ap.html#disqus_thread" target="_blank">Reading about Ron</a> in the Harvard Business Review grabbed me (highly recommend you read the article, too). I&#8217;m continuously training execs on leadership presence, and a huge aspect of leadership is the experience you create for people around you &#8211; so what can we learn from Ron and Apple?</p>
<p>To create a positive experience, it comes down to this (highlights, at least). When you’re interacting with others:</p>
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<li><strong>Are you paying attention to detail?</strong> Quick tip: Details make the entire experience. When it&#8217;s your meeting, presentation, or even large-scale kickoff, get there early and do some setup. What&#8217;s the room temperature? How are the seats arranged?  Has the coffee arrived? If your audience&#8217;s experience in the room is better (read less distracting), they can pay more attention to you and your message.</li>
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<li><strong>Are you approachable?</strong> Quick tip: Pay attention to your face. Are you someone who has a furrowed brow (scrunched forehead) or frowning neutral face? They can be interpreted as intimidating, even if that&#8217;s not what you mean. Think about brightening up with a slight smile.</li>
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<li><strong>Are you connecting?</strong> Quick tip: <a href="http://decker.com/blog/2010/04/be-here-and-now-in-the-here-and-now/" target="_blank">Put down the iPhone</a> for a few minutes (Siri will know you still love her) and hold eye contact throughout the conversation or meeting. It&#8217;s very easy to get in the habit of checking the phone or computer screen, but it hurts rapport with those around you.</li>
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<li><strong>Are you listener-focused?</strong> Quick tip: Watch your pronouns. Instead of making <a href="http://decker.com/blog/2009/04/its-all-about-them-how-to-take-you-out-of-the-message/" target="_blank">it all about me</a> and I, think about using us, we, and you. Seems simple, but <a href="http://decker.com/blog/2011/09/steps-to-rebuilding-trust-series/" target="_blank">changes the whole tone</a> of the conversation.</li>
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<li><strong>Do you have a clear point-of-view?</strong> Quick tip: The last time you tried to explain your perspective on a project or idea, did you beat around the bush or get long winded? State your position up front, and then support it with all the background and detail. It helps people stay on the same page with you.</li>
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<p>Ron Johnson knew that to become a leader in the retail space, Apple had to think differently about the experience they created for their customers. Same goes for us. To be viewed as a leader, you have to think about how you come across and what experience people have when they interact with you.</p>
<p>Try some of these quick tips, and let me know some of your own experiences in the comments.</p>
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		<title>Refresh your email manners</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 18 Nov 2011 19:06:25 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Ben Decker</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Hey, it&#8217;s pretty remarkable we have email etiquette at all. This medium has only been widely used for 15 years or so, and many of us weren&#8217;t given any formal instruction. With that in mind, let&#8217;s refresh our manners. (I&#8217;m skipping the obvious ones like use spell check, avoid !!!!???? and frequent , and let&#8217;s not forget that while neon green is your fave color, I can&#8217;t read pages of it.) &#160; &#160; &#160; &#160; &#160; &#160; &#160; &#160; &#160; &#160; &#160; &#160; &#160; &#160; &#160; &#160; &#160; &#160; Use the subject line. &#8220;Project X&#8221; as a subject doesn&#8217;t mean [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hey, it&#8217;s pretty remarkable we have email etiquette at all. This medium has only been widely used for 15 years or so, and many of us weren&#8217;t given any formal instruction. With that in mind, let&#8217;s refresh our manners.</p>
<p>(I&#8217;m skipping the obvious ones like use spell check, avoid !!!!???? and frequent <img src='http://decker.com/blog/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' />  <img src='http://decker.com/blog/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';)' class='wp-smiley' />  <img src='http://decker.com/blog/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_sad.gif' alt=':(' class='wp-smiley' /> , and let&#8217;s not forget that while neon green is your fave color, I can&#8217;t read pages of it.)</p>
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<p><strong>Use the subject line.</strong></p>
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<li>&#8220;Project X&#8221; as a subject doesn&#8217;t mean much to me, or anyone else. If I&#8217;m juggling other tasks, I won&#8217;t stop what I&#8217;m doing and open it. Try something along these lines instead: &#8220;Need input on Project X by 4pm&#8221; or &#8220;FYI &#8211; Update on Project X.&#8221;</li>
<li>We have a client that developed company-wide subject codes: IO (Information Only) and AR (Action Required). A subject might be, &#8220;IO &#8211; Proposal Progress Report.&#8221; Something to think about.</li>
<li>Instead of &#8220;RE: re: re: re: re: re: re: re: re: re: re: re: Office Holiday Party,&#8221; consider updating the subject line. After so many iterations, often the content has changed, so go in and change the title.</li>
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<p><strong>Bring the main point up front.</strong></p>
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<li>If you&#8217;re writing to ask for more budget, begin by stating that your email is regarding your need for additional budget. <strong>Then</strong> go in to the necessary back info. We often feel like we need to make a case before making the ask, but guess what? If you don&#8217;t <a href="http://decker.com/blog/2011/02/what-tsa-would-say-about-your-next-presentation/" target="_blank">hit that point up front</a>, it may not be read at all. Many of us read emails on our smart phones and won&#8217;t scroll far enough down.</li>
<li>If it&#8217;s a lengthy email, do an executive summary at the top, and then go in to the detail below. Start off with the point of the email, the action that needs to be taken, and the benefit to the reader if that action is taken.</li>
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<p><strong>Mind the reply-all.</strong></p>
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<li>You&#8217;ve heard it, but somehow this tool is continuously abused.</li>
<li>Does every single person on this chain still need to be, after several iterations? Perhaps just two of you have participated in the conversation, and it&#8217;s no longer relevant to others. If so, yank everyone else off the To/CC: lines.</li>
<li>Was the email asking for one specific answer from you, like an RSVP? A reply solely to the author would be more appropriate (though I&#8217;m sure everyone&#8217;s thrilled you&#8217;re participating in White Elephant this year).</li>
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<p><strong>Use URGENT (and caps, for that matter) sparingly.</strong></p>
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<li>You may think that everything you do is incredibly urgent, but if you flag it all that way, it loses any zing. Use urgent flagging in your email client sparingly, if at all.</li>
<li>CAPS ARE TYPICALLY INTERPRETED AS YELLING. IT REMINDS ME OF AUSTIN POWERS NOT CONTROLLING THE <a href="http://www.hark.com/clips/fscvcffbym-im-having-difficulty-controlling-the-volume-of-my-voice" target="_blank">VOLUME OF HIS VOICE</a>. USE CAPS WITH ACRONYMS, BUT NOT ENTIRE SENTENCES.</li>
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<p><strong>Deadline? Be specific.</strong></p>
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<li>&#8220;Need your responses by end of day.&#8221; At least you&#8217;re putting a <a href="http://decker.com/blog/2010/07/inception/" target="_blank">specific action step</a> in your email, good job! But take it a step further and specify a time. EOD is different for most everyone &#8212; my end of day may be 6pm, but perhaps someone else&#8217;s is 11:59pm.</li>
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<p>Look in your outbox and check out the last few emails you&#8217;ve sent. What tweaks can you make to be more effective by next week? What are some of your email etiquette pet peeves so we all can share what to avoid?</p>
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		<title>Hook your audience</title>
		<link>http://decker.com/blog/2011/11/hook-your-audience/</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 04 Nov 2011 15:58:45 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Ben Decker</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[&#8220;I&#8217;m here today to talk to you about standardization.&#8221; That&#8217;s the way a Silicon Valley engineer in our training program COULD have started his presentation about the need to standardize. Instead, he took a different route. &#8220;As I was doing some research for this presentation, I read that the city of Baltimore burnt to the ground in 1904. The tragedy is, it didn&#8217;t have to. Firefighters from nearby DC, New York, and Virginia all responded, but weren&#8217;t able to help because their hose couplings wouldn&#8217;t fit on the Baltimore hydrants &#8211; no standard had yet been set. The firefighters helplessly [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>&#8220;I&#8217;m here today to talk to you about standardization.&#8221;</p>
<p>That&#8217;s the way a Silicon Valley engineer in our training program COULD have started his presentation about the need to standardize. Instead, he took a different route.</p>
<p>&#8220;As I was doing some research for this presentation, I read that the city of Baltimore burnt to the ground in 1904. The tragedy is, it didn&#8217;t have to.</p>
<p>Firefighters from nearby DC, New York, and Virginia all responded, but weren&#8217;t able to help because their hose couplings wouldn&#8217;t fit on the Baltimore hydrants &#8211; no standard had yet been set. The firefighters helplessly watched as the city burned.</p>
<p><a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Great_Baltimore_Fire" target="_blank">Like Baltimore</a>, our organization will suffer if we don&#8217;t standardize our processes.&#8221;</p>
<p><a href="http://decker.com"><img class="alignleft size-full wp-image-2401" title="Great Baltimore Fire Decker SHARP" src="http://decker.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2011/11/baltfire.jpg" alt="" width="640" height="485" /></a></p>
<p>A year later, I remember this story and it&#8217;s tie to standardization. Considering I see hundreds of presentations, that&#8217;s saying something!</p>
<p>It&#8217;s so easy to fall in to the rut of starting with, &#8220;I&#8217;m here to talk to you about [insert topic here]&#8230;&#8221; or &#8220;Thanks so much for being here, I know you&#8217;re all busy, so I really appreciate your time.&#8221; By the time you&#8217;re done with a Lovely-Bunch-of-Words opening like those, guess what? You&#8217;ve likely lost your audience. They&#8217;re thinking about their next meeting, to-do list, evening&#8217;s plans.</p>
<p>Hook them in with a <a href="http://decker.com/blog/2010/03/damn-sticky-sharps-spartacus-data-integration/">SHARP</a> to grab attention from the very start, and tie it to the point of your presentation. Meaning utilize any one or more of these:</p>
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<li><strong>S</strong>tories</li>
<li><strong>H</strong>umor</li>
<li><strong>A</strong>nalogies</li>
<li><strong>R</strong>eferences &amp; Quotes</li>
<li><strong>P</strong>ictures &amp; Visuals</li>
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<p>Dive right in with something memorable instead of diluting your opener. What&#8217;s <a href="http://decker.com/blog/2009/07/the-power-of-story/">your story</a> or client example? Can you think of an analogy that will help bring your idea or product to light? Audience members are often very visual, so are there any images you could use to make a strong opening point?</p>
<p>Again, a year later, I remember the engineer&#8217;s point about needing to standardize because of the story he told at the beginning. Can your audience remember something as vividly from the presentation you gave.. say, last week?</p>
<p>Please share some of your SHARPs and how you prepare your openers!</p>
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		<title>Actually, Timing IS Everything</title>
		<link>http://decker.com/blog/2011/10/actually-timing-is-everything/</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 28 Oct 2011 15:17:48 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Ben Decker</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Communication Skills]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Public Speaking]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[respect time]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[Use a clock]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[&#8220;The bad news is time flies. The good news is you&#8217;re the pilot.&#8221; Michael Altshuler It&#8217;s your turn to present, but long-winded coworker Jeff ate half of your time slot. Your 30 minutes has now been chopped to 15. What do you do (other than eat half of Jeff&#8217;s &#8220;reserved&#8221; cupcake in the fridge later)? One hint: The answer isn&#8217;t rushing and speed talking through all your content. Despite what timing situation you find yourself in &#8212; whether your allotment was stolen by a change of agenda or you just lost track of yourself &#8212; it&#8217;s your responsibility as the [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<h3>&#8220;The bad news is time flies. The good news is you&#8217;re the pilot.&#8221; Michael Altshuler</h3>
<p>It&#8217;s your turn to present, but long-winded coworker Jeff ate half of your time slot. Your 30 minutes has now been chopped to 15. What do you do (other than eat half of Jeff&#8217;s &#8220;reserved&#8221; cupcake in the fridge later)?</p>
<p>One hint: The answer <em>isn&#8217;t </em>rushing and speed talking through all your content.</p>
<p>Despite what timing situation you find yourself in &#8212; whether your allotment was stolen by a change of agenda or you just lost track of yourself &#8212; it&#8217;s your responsibility as the presenter to respect time limitations and work with what you have.</p>
<p>Plan ahead and make timing an internal focus the next time you&#8217;re presenting. If you don&#8217;t play by timing rules, you&#8217;ll crash and burn.</p>
<p><a href="http://decker.com/blog/"><img class="alignleft size-full wp-image-2376" title="Pay attention to timing" src="http://decker.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2011/10/checktime.jpg" alt="" width="283" height="315" /></a></p>
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<p>Here&#8217;s what you need to do about timing:</p>
<p><strong>Know when to cut to the big finish. </strong></p>
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<li>When you have one minute left and you haven&#8217;t covered all your material, stop right there and head to the strong close.</li>
<li>Remember, a solid conclusion restating the point of view, necessary action steps, and benefits to your listeners is going to <a href="http://decker.com/blog/2009/11/are-you-in-the-weeds/" target="_blank">drive home the point</a> of the presentation &#8211; much more than sped-through, rushed support information. Your audience will likely miss anything you speed through, anyway.</li>
<li>Send a recap email and include the missed points.</li>
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<p><strong>Lead with the most important info. </strong></p>
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<li>Journalists and speakers plan the same way. Put the most important information up front, so if your story (or time) gets cut short, at least the critical points have been hit.</li>
<li>This can feel counterintuitive &#8211; sometimes we like to save the best for a big finale, but frankly, you don&#8217;t know what will happen to your time. Prioritize important points so that if you do have to cut to the finish, you&#8217;ve made your case.</li>
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<p><strong>Use a clock, but don&#8217;t look at your watch.</strong></p>
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<li>Be sure to have a timepiece available: a large faced clock or your watch placed on the table, or use the clock in the back of the meeting room. Only you need to know when you&#8217;re checking your time.</li>
<li>Years ago, I sat next to <a href="http://www.ziglar.com/" target="_blank">Zig Ziglar</a> at an <a href="http://www.nsaspeaker.org/" target="_blank">NSA</a> event and saw him adjusting his watch to 7pm (but it was 6:30pm). Excited to help him, I let him know the correct time, at which point he whispered, &#8220;I always put my watch at the top of the hour no matter what. Helps me see it on the lectern and keep track of time.&#8221; Pros like Zig plan for success.</li>
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<p><strong>Build in a buffer. </strong></p>
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<li>Rehearsal time is shorter than real time, so plan accordingly. A good rule of thumb is that your rehearsal time will be about 75% of your actual speaking time. We tend to add things when we are live, and actually speed up our pace in rehearsing.</li>
<li>It&#8217;s a much better situation to find yourself with extra time, than to find yourself out of time.</li>
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<p><strong>Meet audience expectations. </strong></p>
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<li>What&#8217;s everyone&#8217;s non-renewable resource? Time! Everyone in your audience is busy, and if they&#8217;ve planned for a 10 minute meeting or presentation from you, you must stick with the schedule. Even if you&#8217;re interesting, they&#8217;ll start checking their phones and watches once you go over, and you&#8217;ve lost them.</li>
<li>Going over time can be perceived as disorganized, and <a href="http://www.professorshouse.com/Relationships/General/Articles/Being-Tardy---A-Sign-of-Disrespect/" target="_blank">even disrespectful</a>, so set expectations and meet them to avoid resentment.</li>
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<p>It&#8217;s part planning for success, and part having plan B&#8217;s ready to go in case of emergency. Prioritize your timeliness the next time you&#8217;re presenting because you control the experience you&#8217;re creating for your audience. Respect their time, and they&#8217;re more likely to respect your points.</p>
<p>What time management tricks do you use?</p>
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		<title>Avoid webinar viewer unconsciousness</title>
		<link>http://decker.com/blog/2011/10/avoid-webinar-viewer-unconsciousness/</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 21 Oct 2011 14:27:49 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Ben Decker</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Communication Skills]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Web/Tech]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Garr Reynolds]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[Is it a coincidence that the moment a webinar starts, it&#8217;s viewers experience spontaneous narcolepsy? Nope. &#160; &#160; &#160; &#160; &#160; &#160; &#160; &#160; Webinars tend to be passive, informational data dumps, which (surprise!) don&#8217;t get our audience members excited. They&#8217;re being used more and more frequently for virtual training and orientation programs, but if the listeners aren&#8217;t ingesting the content, what&#8217;s the point? No matter what you call them (webinar, virtual meeting) or what platform you use (GoToMeeting, Lync Online, WebEx) here are 4 best practices to keep in mind: 1. Hold interest Keep the presentation slides moving. More than [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Is it a coincidence that the moment a webinar starts, it&#8217;s viewers experience spontaneous narcolepsy?</p>
<p>Nope.</p>
<p><a href="http://decker.com"><img class="alignleft size-full wp-image-2319" title="Webinars can be boring" src="http://decker.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2011/10/sleepywebinar.png" alt="" width="315" height="218" /></a></p>
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<p>Webinars tend to be passive, informational data dumps, which (surprise!) don&#8217;t get our audience members excited. They&#8217;re being used more and more frequently for virtual training and orientation programs, but if the listeners aren&#8217;t ingesting the content, what&#8217;s the point? No matter what you call them (webinar, virtual meeting) or what platform you use (<a href="http://www.gotomeeting.com" target="_blank">GoToMeeting</a>, <a href="http://www.microsoft.com/en-us/office365/lync-online.aspx#fbid=qsCHBHm6DnZ" target="_blank">Lync Online</a>, <a href="http://www.webex.com" target="_blank">WebEx</a>) here are 4 best practices to keep in mind:</p>
<p><strong>1. Hold interest</strong></p>
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<li>Keep the presentation slides moving. More than a few minutes on one slide causes a massive dip in attention (which you can usually track in your webinar toolbox). No one needs to see the same agenda or fiscal results for an hour, so keep it going.</li>
<li>Use engaging visual slides. <a href="http://www.garrreynolds.com/Introduction/aboutgarr.html" target="_blank">Garr Reynolds</a> is well renowned for his easy-to-implement slide tips &#8212; <a href="http://www.garrreynolds.com/Presentation/slides.html" target="_blank">take a look</a>.</li>
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<p><strong>2. Direct</strong></p>
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<li>Why are you having this webinar? We’ve all sat through an informational webinar with no real point or direction. Spare your audience this fate and let them know not just what info you&#8217;re dishing, but why they should care.</li>
<li>Think through who is listening and why. What do you want them to know, understand, or do? What is their call to action? What do they get from being a participant? These may seem obvious, but lay it out for your listeners &#8212; you can&#8217;t assume they see the value.</li>
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<p><strong>3. Interact</strong></p>
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<li>Don’t make it a one-person show. Get clients, customers, stellar sales reps, and others on your team involved in the presentation by having them present a few slides, offer an example or short story, or give a quick interview. This will<a href="http://decker.com/blog/2010/04/be-here-and-now-in-the-here-and-now/" target="_blank"> limit multitasking</a> and continue to help keep interest high.</li>
<li>Use polling, Q&amp;A, chat rooms, and other functions available in your webinar toolbox. Often, no one wants to be the sole voice to unmute and ask a question, so give your listeners other ways to engage. If you have more than 10 people participating, consider getting a producer to help you manage the interactions and keep things running smoothly.</li>
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<p><strong>4. Push energy</strong></p>
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<li><a href="http://decker.com/blog/2010/04/the-art-of-storytelling-is-in-the-telling/" target="_blank"><em>Show</em> energy</a> through your voice. You may have created the most influential PowerPoint in history, but to keep your audience’s attention, you need to pay attention to your delivery. Project volume, smile, move around, and gesture because they&#8217;ll hear the energy. If you sound like you care about the content, they&#8217;re more likely to care. All they have of you (other than your words) is your voice, so use it to keep them focused.</li>
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<p>Ultimately, you need to think about communication experience you are creating. Sure, people<em> should </em>pay attention because the webinar information you&#8217;re doling out is important, but they won&#8217;t if they&#8217;re bored. It&#8217;s your responsibility as the presenter to keep them with you.</p>
<p>Please share your thoughts on these tips, or your own best practices!</p>
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		<title>Steve Jobs the Communicator</title>
		<link>http://decker.com/blog/2011/10/steve-jobs-the-communicator/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 06 Oct 2011 16:51:13 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Bert Decker</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[&#160; Above all, he communicated his brilliant concepts to millions of people, brilliantly. So much is now being said about Steve Jobs brilliance &#8211; and deservedly so. He was one of a kind. Here is the acknowledged leader and innovator in the world of computers, media, music and business – and yet on the side he built Pixar into the best animation studio in the world and became Disney’s largest stockholder. Amazing. But what strikes me most about Steve Jobs is that he had no peer in inspiring and motivating others. Not just his employees, not just his customers, but [...]]]></description>
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<p>Above all, he communicated his brilliant concepts to millions of people, brilliantly.</p>
<p>So much is now being said about Steve Jobs brilliance &#8211; and deservedly so. He was one of a kind. Here is the acknowledged leader and innovator in the world of computers, media, music and business – and yet on the side he built Pixar into the best animation studio in the world and became Disney’s largest stockholder. Amazing.</p>
<p>But what strikes me most about Steve Jobs is that he had no peer in inspiring and motivating others. Not just his employees, not just his customers, but the world. Because of his communicating ability he became a rock star. I remember when I got up at 5AM to go to Moscone Center in San Francisco to hear him announce the iPhone, and I was too late – the line was already three blocks long. Who could have ever predicted that an executive who really is just making a product announcement would be able to command such attention. Amazing.</p>
<p>He was unparalleled. We had him on our <a title="Steve Jobs Top Ten" href="http://decker.com/blog/2009/12/top-ten-best-and-worst-communicators-of-2009/">Top Ten Best Communicators</a> list several times – and actually he could have been #1 every year but that would have been boring.</p>
<p>He was never boring. He brought us so much. He is a worthy model to emulate. He will be so missed.</p>
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