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Archive for July, 2006

Speakernet News

Posted by Bert Decker   |   July 27th, 2006   |   1 Comment   |  Tweet This

In the interim…

Still catching up from the National Speakers Association convention, where there is much to be gleaned on effective communications. And some not so effective. But while catching up, here’s a place to go for many weekly tips if you are interested in being at the top level of communicating – professionally or not. (Actually, we are all professional speakers if we manage, lead, sell, and otherwise earn a living.)

Subscribe to Speakernet News, put out by great people Rebecca Morgan and Ken Braly. You’ll find a nugget or two in each email issue. Here you go:http://www.speakernetnews.com/subscribe.html


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National Speakers Association Three

Posted by Bert Decker   |   July 25th, 2006   |   5 Comments   |  Tweet This

MegaphoneThird and final day here at the National Speakers Association in Orlando. Can you imagine how noisy the rooms are with 1,700 professional speakers running around. All with a forward lean…

And the great thing about blogging is you find new resources – just an hour ago I found another blogger who is covering each speaker in detail – visit Ian Griffin, who has taken the pressure off. Now I can cover the highlights and lowlights and you can go to Ian for the chronology. (Please keep up the pace Ian.)

There is enough material for many posts in the next few weeks on the presention styles and content – let me mention two great workshops from today, and one big DON’T that all speakers – professionals included – should heed.

Doug Stevenson did a great job on developing Your Signature Story. This is not just for professionals, but most emphatically for business communicators. The big idea that we all should take to heart is that "Safe is a dangerous place to be." Doug demonstrates how to let it all out in your story – physical and emotional. A powerful concept is to not just narrate your story, but to be "in" the story. Act it out in the present. About 99% of storytellers just narrate – Doug says to maybe narrate 70% and be in the story with dialogue, movement, gestures and animation – acting it out – 30% of the time. Great concept. You can’t do that and be safe. Now for those business communicators – where 99% hide behind the numbers, or PowerPoints laden with text, or monotone concepts. Not effective, and not what you have to do. Let it out. "Safe is a dangerous place to be" if you want to make an impact.

And of course Doug was a great presenter – an accomplished speaker and actor in his past life, maybe we might expect that.

Kim Snider on the other hand is not what we expected. She is a very successful businesswoman and the founder of an investment firm and The Snider Investment Method. Yet when she presented she was not a boring, monotone business investment speaker. In her workshop she created an experience – one of poise, confidence, energy, control and great effectiveness. Naturally her movement, gestures, smile and dress were all on target. That was impressive!

But what topped it off was her content – she spoke on BLOGGING – who would have thought. Here is an expert in business, talking on another subject so expertly, and speaking like the professional speaker she is. Go to her blog now for a sample of one of three blogs, and a very good website. No wonder she’s so successful. You might email her for her blog tips in the very effective handouts at http://themethod.kimsnider.com/. You might even do business with her.

A Speaking Tip

In the next weeks there will be so many good things coming on what to do right as a speaker – communicating a communication experience, that I wanted to give at least one counterpoint of what NOT to do.

Don’t Hold The Clicker! I have been amazed that the great majority of speakers – all professionals – hold the clicker when they are using PowerPoints. Only one used a clicker and put it down when they weren’t clicking. The rest held it in hand, like so many business presenters, inhibiting gestures and basically using it like an unnecessary crutch. Not effective.

The first thing I’d recommend is having your laptop on the stage with you, and barring that if you have to use a remote, have the clicker taped down so you can walk to it when you want to move to the next image. If you’re disciplined, as most of these folks should have been and only one was, you can pick up and put down the clicker when you need to use it, but not clutch it eternally.

The most unprofessional behavior in this group of great professionals was "clicker clutch," and it does not have to be. (I’ll have a comment on the surprising rise of the "hand clultch" in a later post.

More to come…


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National Speakers Association convention

Posted by Bert Decker   |   July 24th, 2006   |   1 Comment   |  Tweet This

My intention is to give daily posts on the exciting speakers here at the National Speakers Association in Orlando. And the lessons to be learned as well.

The relentless pace is getting the better of me, as I’ll keep my promise, but the posts will not be as meaty while it is going on for the next two days. But there is a lot of fodder for following posts.

Martha Williamson – who is one of the few here who is NOT a professional speaker, happened to give Angel2 a classic speech. Actually, it was an experience, as any great speech will be. Martha was the creator and Executive Producer of the hit CBS TV Show Touched By An Angel, and she had the entire audience leap to a standing ovation. In tears. She was authentic, while being skilled. She stood out among professionals, and she doesn’t do it for a living. I’ll review her in detail later, as she was not only a master storyteller, but departed from her script to relate her personal story to the needs and interests of the audience. Very moving.

Two professionals who do speak for a living, and do a lot more as well, were highlights of today. If you ever get a chance to hear either Charlie "Tremendous" Jones or Nido Qubein – run, don’t walk to a seat in their audience. I am inspired by the spirit and soul of Charlie, and could sit at the feet of Nido and listen and learn.

More later.


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Zig Ziglar

Posted by Bert Decker   |   July 23rd, 2006   |   Leave a Comment   |  Tweet This

What an opportunity to give brief reviews of some of the speakers at this year’s National Speakers Association convention in Orlando. The only problem it is relentless – nary a break, so I’ll be brief and just give text of memorable highlights.

Zig Ziglar spoke on this Sunday Morning. What an inspiration – and what a pro. Although if you’ve heard him before you’ve heard him say, "I speak at 280 words per minute with gusts up to 550," but each time he repeats a bon mot or phrase, it seems fresh. And delivered with such style.

Since Zig gave a spritual talk, I won’t go into the content here (although it was personal, moving and very motivating.) The learning point is his vocal style. Zig takes what might be faults in another to strengths. Much like Johnny Carson used his early nervous mannerisms as a signature in movement and gesture and facial expression.

Ziglar uses "ums" as long drawn out pauses – they aren’t ums at all, just his style. And his drawing out the end of his words works so well. Like "for themmmmmm…" and "astronomicallllllll" and "heavennnnn…" and "real, real welllllll."

He says he likes to tell things in a story fashion, which he does real, real well. The great speakers use stories. Join them.


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Stand to the Side

Posted by Bert Decker   |   July 14th, 2006   |   3 Comments   |  Tweet This

Change Your Screen Position!Standing_in_front

I saw it again today – a conference with almost every presenter walking in front of their projected PowerPoint slides. Not only is this not skillful, it’s not necessary.

There are two solutions:

  1. Move the screen to the side. Most conference, board and meeting rooms are unfortunately designed very poorly for communications – the screen is plunked right in the center of the room, as if our PowerPoints are the presentation. YOU are the presentation. YOU be in the center. When it’s possible (which is the majority of the time,) move the screen to the left or right side, with the projector and laptop on a table just to your left or right respectively, and you be in the middle.
  2. When not possible, use Black Slides. (A black slide is simply a plain slide with a black background. More on this important tool later – it has other purposes than just this.) When you use black slides you can move to the center in front of your projector when you want to tell a story, make a point, or otherwise communicate without the PowerPoint shining on you. Then you won’t have to walk through a slide – looks unprofessional and is ineffective.

Although this is not the business tradition, it works. When you go back to being in the center of your presentation, you will multiply your effectiveness.


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Blackberry over Boring

Posted by Bert Decker   |   July 11th, 2006   |   1 Comment   |  Tweet This

Been away too long – well not really away but we’ve had a press of business that has kept blogging too minimal. I’m delighted to be back, and next week we are going to the National Speakers Association convention, and will post some daily delights!

Recently I was with a delightful and impressive client – and loved his comment about "Blackberry Abuse" in meetings and speeches. (A post is coming soon on that too, and what to do about it.)

HackingHe said that when he goes to national meetings of his top Fortune 500 company, he knows when certain people are going to be long. And boring. So he puts his text message off regular and on "unlimited plan." Might as well get some work done.

True story. It would be great if we could have a metric that would measure how much texting, email checking, and IM’s went on as a measure of the effectiveness of the communicator in a large audience setting.


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